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Daddy and Lewis

Daddy and Lewis

My little boy is 7 month old today! I honestly can’t believe it… He weighs over 20 pounds, has 4 teeth, is eating solid food, sitting up, and beginning to crawl. Thankfully, he’s also one of the happiest babies I know — he loves to laugh and play, and smiles constantly. Being a mom is even better than I imagined. Here are some pictures from our 6-month photo shoot. ENJOY!

Mommy and Lewis

Mommy and Lewis

Happy baby

Happy baby

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Family Picture

Family Picture


What a difference a year makes…

Last year at this time, I was just a few days past my embryo transfer, and was hoping and praying for a miracle. I had already been through so much — multiple miscarriages, lots of tests, a ton of poking and prodding by my doctors, and then a shift to try IVF as last resort to help me get and stay pregnant. Thankfully, it worked! I vividly remember the call from my doctor telling me that I was pregnant and then suffering through hyper-stimulated ovaries for weeks on end until my HCG levels normalized.

During the first trimester, we went in for an ultrasound to check on our baby’s growth every week. Those appointments were both frightening and exciting. Seeing the amazing changes and growth that embryo went through was truly remarkable, but I was terrified about having another miscarriage. Week after week, I was reassured that he was growing and everything was normal. I had never wanted to be “normal” so badly in my life. Thankfully, my 2nd and 3rd trimesters were normal — I was healthy and little man was healthy — and I had a relatively “easy” delivery!

I didn’t realize how hard my fertility journey was on me and my psyche. I really wasn’t myself for so long. Going through years of pain and loss wore me down. Luckily, I have an amazing support network that helped me to continue in our journey to have a child. Now that we have our son, I know that every ounce of pain, every tear, and every loss was worth the happiness I now have. My soul has been renewed; I am happier, more positive, and feel better about life. I am back to the woman I was before all of this started, and am SO grateful for the life I have. It’s truly amazing the difference a year can make…

Baby dust to those of you who are still in the midst of your struggle — I hope and pray that you get your miracle soon!


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11+ Weeks

My little guy is now 11+ weeks old, and is growing stronger and bigger every day. I swear he goes to bed one size and wakes up even larger – it’s remarkable! He has also changed a ton – his hair is lighter (kind of a strawberry blonde, like my dad), his eyes are getting darker (but still a beautiful grey color), and he has such a happy and lovable personality ;-). As for sleep, he is slowly starting to sleep a little longer – between 3 and 4 hours at night and napping for 1-2.5 hours during the day – which means that I am getting a little more rest. I am also starting to pay more attention to his sleeping habits – how long it takes him to fall asleep, how he falls asleep, and how long he sleeps – so we can get into a little more of a routine. I also want to begin a more regimented night routine to help him fall asleep more easily.

I have been back to work now for 2 weeks, and he’s adjusted well to having someone other than mommy take care of him. Thankfully, I primarily work from home, so I get to spend time with and feed him often – yay! I am sure the harder adjustment is on my end, but I am managing. I don’t really know how I would do it if I didn’t work at home, however. I have an almost 2-hour commute to my office, so I would barely see him awake during the week, which would be awful.

As for development, little man is starting to really pay attention to people’s faces and expressions. He also loves his hands. It’s so cute to watch him lay on the bed and get so much joy out of discovering his fingers. He’s also ‘talking’ a lot more and giggling a ton. His little voice is my favorite sound – it literally makes me instantly happier!

Life as a mom is even better than I imagined it would be. I am so very lucky to have a wonderful and loving hubby to share parenthood with.

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Baby W is 6 weeks old!

It’s hard to believe, but tomorrow is Baby W’s 6 week birthday. I honestly don’t know where the time has gone — I feel like he was just born last week. Because I am so busy being mommy, and of course getting little sleep, the days and weeks seem to run together. It’s actually nice not worrying too much about what day it is, how many meetings I have, and everything else that goes with work and life. The only things that have mattered over the last month and a half are taking care of Lewis and spending time with my hubby. 🙂

The last 6 weeks have been quite remarkable. I feel like we’ve been on how to be parents crash course with a teacher who doesn’t speak English. We have learned his cues and cries, and watched him grow and change so much already. Baby W has become more alert, is smiling, and cooing — he’s just adorable! His hair has also gotten lighter, but his eyes are still a beautiful grey. I can’t wait to see what color they eventually turn. He loves to dance and play in his activity mat, he’s getting better at lifting his head during tummy time, and I really think he’ll be rolling over in the next month or so. One of his favorite activities continues to be eating, and it shows in his weight gain — he has to be pushing 12 pounds! Thankfully, he knows his nights from his days, but he doesn’t love napping during the day. I am trying to do a better job of reading his sleepy cues, so I can get him to sleep before he has a meltdown from being too sleepy. I have also learned that if he thinks I am going to sleep, then he is more likely to nod off. He also love walking, so I often put him in his baby carrier and we walk on the treadmill or outside (if the weather is nice). Typically the rocking motion puts him to sleep within minutes!

Being a mom truly is an amazing journey! I am loving every part of it, and I am grateful for a wonderful support network. My hubby is an amazing father, and he takes great care of me. He’s been cooking a ton and always takes Baby W at night so I can get a nap in before the nighttime feedings begin. Our family and friends have also been great — they’ve visited, sent gifts, brought food, and just been a fabulous support during this time of great transition. I honestly don’t know how people do this without support from their partner and loved ones!

Right now, I am searching for a nanny to watch Baby W when I return to work in a month. It’s so hard to find the “right” person to care for him. This is one of those time that I wish we lived closer to family — I am so jealous of friends who have family close by who can watch their kids. I have interviews set up this week and am making additional calls to a few more people — fingers crossed that we find the right person soon. I know s/he is out there… On the bright side, I work from home, so I’ll be able to spend time with my little guy during the day and should also be able to still feed him on demand. Yay!

As for work, I have mixed feelings about going back. Part of me is excited to return — I miss the thinking and creativity of my job. But, another part of me is sad that I won’t be able to spend all of my time with my son. I know that I will get used to it, and I will figure out how to find the right balance between caring for Baby W and getting my work done, but it will definitely be a HUGE adjustment…

For those out there who just had their little ones — congratulations again! I am sure you’re enjoying every second as much as I am. For those who are expecting, good luck with the rest of your pregnancies, and all my best for a quick and healthy delivery! And, finally, for those who are still trying, sending much love and baby dust to you!

Breastfeeding ain’t easy…

I have been meaning to write for quite a while now, but time has gotten away from me. I also started a blog about breastfeeding a while ago and somehow lost it, so alas, I must start a new one :).

First, a quick update on life as a mommy! Mommyhood is going well — I am definitely tired, but what mom isn’t?!?!?! Our little guy is a very good baby — he doesn’t cry too much (except when he gets over tired), sleeps pretty well, and is super cute. We are learning his cues, how to distinguish between his cries, and adapting to parenthood. Baby W loves being held and sung to, and is a BIG fan of eating. He doesn’t like the car (yet) and doesn’t like sleeping in his bassinet, but we’re working on it!

Now, onto breastfeeding. I am writing this to share my breastfeeding experiences — both the good and bad. Luckily, 5 weeks later, we are still going strong, but it hasn’t been easy!

While I was pregnant, one of my biggest fears was that my milk wouldn’t come in and I would be a failure at breastfeeding. Because of this fear, I signed us up for breastfeeding class, read a couple of books about the topics, and asked our doula for advice and additional instruction about what to expect when Baby W arrived. I know that breastfeeding is “natural,” but that doesn’t mean it comes easy to everyone. In fact, many of my mommy friends have told me how hard it is, and more than half have stopped breastfeeding because it was just too much. I now understand why…

Right after Baby W was born, the doctor put him on my chest and he immediately found my left breast and started to eat. He latched on perfectly and was a pro-eater. After 30-35 minutes, he switched to the right side and ate for another 30-35 minutes. The doctor, nurse, and our doula were quite impressed with his breastfeeding expertise. I was thrilled that he knew what to do, and that we had gotten off to such a strong start. Over the next two days, Baby W ate every 1-2 hours and continued to impress the nurses and lactation consultants with his ability to latch and suck. Everything checked out, and we were discharged to go home a mere 2 days after our little guy arrived in the world.

Life at home was actually really nice – no annoying nurse check-ins at 4am right after you got the baby to sleep. Plus, my hubby was the best — he literally made every meal, changed every diaper, and did anything else I needed so I could sleep whenever Baby W wasn’t eating. Since he ate so often, I was pretty exhausted, and since my milk wasn’t fully in, Baby W was a little fussy because he was very hungry. He was also losing a good amount of weight. Weight loss in newborns is perfectly normal — up to 10% of their birthweight — but our little guy had dropped to 8lbs at his first pediatrician appointment 4 days after his birth. Our pediatrician was concerned about his weight loss, and asked us to supplement his feedings with 1 ounce of formula. I was, of course, very upset about this request. I was worried that supplementing with formula would hurt my milk supply and might lead us down a slippery slope of switching to 100% formula. I was also worried about nipple confusion, so refused to use a bottle to give him the formula, but instead opted to use a syringe to feed him. To increase my supply, I also started pumping a few times a day — I didn’t get much milk, but I am convinced it helped my milk come in more quickly.

Thankfully, everything we did worked, and at the next appointment 3 days later, Baby W had gained 6.5 ounces. Our pediatrician was thrilled with his progress, and said we could reduce the supplemental feedings to 2-3 per day. We listened to the doctor and I continued feeding him on demand and we supplemented a few of his feedings. One week later, we went back to the doctor, and he had gained another 12 ounces — he was averaging almost 2 ounces a day! I was beyond happy — we could stop supplementing and continue with our regular feedings! YAY 🙂

We definitely got lucky with everything, but I also think knowing what to expect and being prepared helped us get through the rough spots. Based on our experience, here are a few ti[s — feel free to take them or leave them 🙂

1. Breastfeeding is hard!
It’s hard both emotionally and physically. Your nipples are going to hurt and you aren’t going to get much sleep. It will take a lot of willpower to get through the feedings in the middle of the night, but you can do it! Know that every woman who has stuck with breastfeeding has gone through this struggle, and if we can do it, so can you!

2. It’s gonna hurt, so be prepared.
It takes a little while to toughen up your nipples for regular feedings. It will be even harder if your little one has trouble latching on. So, make sure you are prepared with ways to reduce the pain. I strongly suggest lanolin cream — bring it with you to the hospital and start using it immediately. It will help to heal your nipples and is perfectly safe for you baby to ingest. I also suggest gel pads (my hospital gave me some to take home, but you can also find them at baby stores). Store the pads in the fridge, and after feedings put them directly on your nipples. They help to heal your skin and the cold feels great! Plus, the gel pads are reusable, so you only need a few.

3. Ask for help immediately.
When you’re in the hospital, ask to talk to a lactation consultant, and work with her to position your baby and get the correct latch. If you don’t deliver at a hospital, work with your midwife. If you start having trouble when you’re home, call a lactation consultant right away. The earlier you get help, the more likely you are to solve the problem and correct it. When we got home from our first trip to the pediatrician, my first call was to a lactation consultant to get her advice. It was great to have the support and to know that we were doing the right things for our baby.

4. Spend as much time skin-to-skin
Early on, spend as much time as you can skin-to-skin with your baby. The contact will actually increase your milk-making hormones and help your milk to come in. It also helps your baby to feel safe, improves his body temperature, and helps regulate his blood sugar.

5. If you’re in a hospital, room in with your baby
I know this sounds crazy. You are going to be tired from labor and delivery, but it’s important to learn your baby’s feeding cues. The more time you spend with her, the better you’ll become at recognizing them and at knowing when to feed her. It’s also important to feed her often — the more time she spends feeding, the more quickly your milk will come in, which will make your breastfeeding relationship better.

6. Tell the nurses at the hospital that you are breastfeeding
Make sure the nurses know that you are breastfeeding your baby, and that you don’t want any supplementation with formula. Nurses mean well, but if they begin to supplement your baby, then it can be very detrimental to your milk supply and your milk coming in. Your milk supply is all about supply and demand — the more time your baby spends with you at your breast, the more milk you will produce.

7. Ask for help
You will not be able to do everything when you get home. You are going to be exhausted and you need to focus on feeding your baby. In our breastfeeding class, the instructor told the class, that your only job as a mom was to feed your baby whenever she was hungry, and leave the rest to your partner, family, and friends. This was hard for me — I hate not getting things done, but it’s so important. You need to rest and spend as much time with your baby as possible. You are also healing from labor and delivery, so you need to get a much rest as possible.

8. Sleep when your baby sleeps
I received this advice from a million people, and you know what, it’s the best advice! You need your rest, everything else can wait. Ask your partner, friends, or family to clean and/or cook; order food; and, if you can afford it, hire someone to clean. You will be a better mom, and will stay more emotionally stable if you get sleep, so do everything you can to rest. In the beginning, I stayed in my room with Baby W and whenever he dozed off, I did the same. I felt a little guilty, but I also wanted to be the best possible mom I could be, and knew that sleep was an integral part of that.

I hope these tips help! All my best to you and your growing family 🙂

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Birth Story

I finally have a free minute or two to share our birth story :). As you all know, I have been planning a natural childbirth since before I was pregnant. To help accomplish this, we hired a doula, went to childbirth classes, read and studied a lot, and developed a birth plan to communicate our wishes. Obviously, we don’t always have complete control over labor and delivery, but I wanted to be as prepared as possible since I knew that would help me get through the intensity and pain of labor.

So here’s the story of the birth of our beautiful son:
On Monday, I woke up and worked from home. I was still having consistent contractions, but they weren’t strong. As instructed by the doctor the night before, I called our OB’s office and made an appointment for Tuesday to discuss induction. As the day progressed, I started to Read more…

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